Fast & Furious 1st Birth, Slow & Steady 2nd Birth

Amy had a fast and furious birth with her first born: her water broke at 9pm and Eli was born by 1am! With rising blood pressure and transitioning so quickly, Amy blacked in and out of consciousness, but was able to have her planned unmedicated birth. Her nurses joked that she’d need to “camp out” for any subsequent babies, but when Amy delivered her daughter 3.5 years later, she had a very different birthing experience. While both babies came exactly 9 days before their due date, Juniper’s labor was slow and steady and much less chaotic.

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Amy Richardson Golia Bio

Amy is the CEO and founder of kids e-commerce brand, June & January. They make bright and colorful kids basics, shoes, and accessories at an affordable price point. You can find them @juneandjanuary

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Unmedicated Hospital Birth & Homebirth with Breastfeeding Complications

Natural Hospital Birth

Linnaea and her husband, Justin, opened their hearts to welcome a child a few months after they were married. It didn’t take long to find out that they were pregnant with their first son. Linnaea’s first pregnancy was relatively normal with no complications and they decided on an OB and a natural hospital birth. Linnaea went into labor at 36 weeks and 6 days when her water broke at around 7:30 in the morning. As they had agreed with her OB, they packed their bags and headed to the hospital. Initially she didn’t really feel any contractions, but within a few hours, the contractions began and continued to increase in frequency and intensity throughout the day. Her son Henry was born just before 6pm.

Peaceful Home Birth with Breastfeeding Complications

When their first son, Henry, was 17 months old, Linnaea and Justin learned that they were expecting their second child. After experiencing the challenges of having a natural birth in a hospital and feeling like they had to fight to avoid interventions with the hospital staff and OB, Linnaea and Justin decided to plan to have their second baby at home with midwives.

After interviewing a couple of different midwives, they felt very comfortable with the midwives at Birthstream Midwifery and began seeing them for Linnaea’s prenatal visits at around 15 weeks. A couple of days before reaching 38 weeks, Linnaea started having mild contractions. After laboring pretty easily for most of the night, she went into active labor Saturday morning. Once Henry, now 2 years old, left to stay with a friend, she called her midwife, Leslie. After about 2 hours of active labor and 5 minutes of pushing, Oliver was born at 11:28am.

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Linnaea was very thankful for having the amazing, supportive, and peaceful home birth that she had hoped for. Unfortunately, her postpartum period brought on some unexpected breastfeeding challenges.

Oliver initially seemed to latch well in the first hours after birth, but after the first few days, Linnaea was experiencing significant nipple pain and damage along with a clogged duct and threatened mastitis. Linnaea started pumping while continuing to try to breastfeed in order to make sure that Oliver received enough milk and to establish and maintain her milk supply. Over the next couple of weeks, Linnaea’s midwives helped her connect with two lactation consultants who each suggested that Oliver likely had a posterior tongue tie and a high palate; both recommended alternative latching positions and techniques as well as craniosacral massage therapy for Oliver to help improve his breastfeeding effectiveness and reduce Linnaea’s pain. The lactation consultants also proposed the option of having a tongue clipping procedure performed that could release Oliver’s tongue and allow him to breastfeed. After trying all of the other options, Linnaea and Justin decided to take Oliver to a pediatric dentist to have his tongue released with a laser procedure. The day after the procedure, Linnaea was in severe pain from another clogged duct that had again turned into mastitis, and went to see an OB to get antibiotics. Unfortunately the clog had turned into an abscess and required surgical intervention. The wound took about 2-3 months to heal completely. During that time, Linnaea continued to work on breastfeeding with Oliver, but he decided that he was not really interested in breastfeeding. However, he was doing very well with breastmilk in bottles, so Linnaea continued pumping to provide breastmilk for him until he was 1 year old.

Linnaea is very grateful for the support she received from her family, friends, midwives, and lactation consultants throughout the journey and hopes that in sharing this story, she can help other moms who may face similar challenges. Once piece of advice that helped her through the toughest times was to never give up in your worst or most difficult moment, and to try to keep going until you can reach a state of mind where you can make the best decision for you, your baby, and your family.

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Linnaea Headlee-Borden Bio

Linnaea is 33 years old and lives in the Bay Area of California with her husband, Justin, and 2 sons, Henry and Oliver. She is a part time engineering contractor, full time mom, and enjoys crafting, cooking, and gardening in her spare time. You can connect with her on Instagram at: linnaea.hb or email: linnaeaheadleeborden@gmail.com

Resources

Know Your Options Childbirth Course 
Kellymom 
La Leche League – Solano County 
Birthstream Midwifery 
BirthTube on Facebook 
The Birth Hour
All About Breastfeeding Podcast
The Longest Shortest Time Podcast

Babylist

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Epidural Hospital Birth & Unmedicated Hospital Birth

Sarah had planned on an unmedicated hospital birth with her first child, but eventually got an epidural after becoming frustrated with a difference in cervical checks done by the nurse and the on-call doctor. For her second labor, she decided to try again for an unmedicated birth and decided to hire a doula for extra support. Her second labor was much easier and quicker and she was able to achieve the birth she had hoped for.

Sarah Jones Bio

Sarah lives in Birmingham, Alabama with her husband, Roger, and their two little boys, Catesby (2) and George (2 weeks). Sarah is an occupational therapist and works in home health. She enjoys time with family and friends, cooking, music, and traveling. She has a strong passion for birth and breastfeeding. You can find her on Facebook as Sarah Croft Jones and Instagram @sayrahrah.

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Resources

Expecting Better by Emily Oster
Birth Matters
Spiritual Midwifery
Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin
The Milky Way documentary
KellyMom.com for breastfeeding
Evidenced Based Birth podcast
The Birth Hour podcast, of course!

Expectful

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Positive Hospital Birth with Amazing Partner Support

Hypnobirthing and Partner Support for Hospital Birth

A doctor told Chelsea there were no trophies for women who have an unmedicated birth; but, Chelsea felt passionate about having a serene, med-free experience in the hospital. When she had to be induced at 38 weeks with gestational hypertension, her preparation and self advocacy paid off for a successful hypnobirth experience.

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Chelsea Lane Bio

Chelsea lives in Kansas City with her partner of 7 years, Stephen, their goldendoodle, and their sweet baby boy. Chelsea is a family advocate for a local school district, and she also supports children with developmental delays in their homes. Over the last several years, Chelsea has become passionate about mindfulness and self-regulation. She hopes to inspire and encourage other women to embrace the power of their own minds and bodies and share their unique, positive stories about the beauty of giving birth. You can connect with her at Chelsealane23@gmail.com.

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Resources

Know Your Options Childbirth Course
The Birth Hour Podcast
Hypnobirthing
Mama Natural Week-by-Week Pregnancy Guide

 

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Intrahepatic Cholestasis of Pregnancy (ICP) Birth Stories with Nicole Phelps

Nicole Phelps shares her experience with Intrahepatic Cholestasis of Pregnancy (ICP)

Nicole Phelps shares her experience being pregnant while her partner, Michael Phelps, was training for the Olympics. She hired a doula and prepared to possibly give birth without Michael there. A few weeks before her due date, Nicole started experiencing extreme itchiness, especially on the palms of her hands, and was tested for Intrahepatic Cholestasis of Pregnancy (ICP). However, she went into labor before the results came back. Michael made it just in time, and her son, Boomer, was born healthy. The test result came back positive and she knew she’d have to be on the lookout for another ICP diagnosis with future pregnancies. On this episode, she also shares her second pregnancy and birth story and how her doctor monitored her for ICP leading up to her son Beckett’s birth. Nicole wanted to share her story to raise awareness about ICP so other women can be on the lookout for the symptoms.

Nicole Phelps Bio

Nicole Phelps is a philanthropist who volunteers her time with the Michael Phelps Foundation, which promotes water-safety, healthy living, and the pursuit of dreams. The proud mom of two young boys and supportive wife, Nicole is a former marketing professional and Miss California (2010). She and her family, including two French Bulldogs, reside in Paradise Valley, AZ. Connect with her on Instagram @mrs.nicolephelps and Twitter @mrsnicolephelps.

nicole and michael phelps birth story

Resources

ICP Care
ICP Support
Nicole’s Doula: Kelly Sunshine Doula services

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A Healing VBAC with a Surprise Guest

VBAC after Traumatic Cesarean Birth

After a traumatic c-section, Allison knew she wanted to try for a VBAC. During her pregnancy she did everything she could to stay healthy, both mentally and physically She found the online birth community and learned everything she could about birth. After 42 weeks, she was induced at the hospital and had the most empowering and healing VBAC while surrounded by her incredible birth team of women and her supportive husband.

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Allison Lynch Bio

Allison lives in Madison, WI with her husband Jesse and their two children. She is a research administrator at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. Allison and her family love spending as much time as they can outdoors, even in the cold Wisconsin winters. Although her first birth ended up in a traumatic emergency c-section, she is an advocate for natural birth and is very passionate about postpartum support and finding help when you need it. She is active in her local birth and new mother communities, so if you are local she can connect you. Connect with Allison on Instagram @AlliLynch14, on Facebook at Allison Lynch or via email: Allisonglynch@gmail.com.

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Resources

Birth Without Fear by January Harshe
Fearless Birthing by Alexia Leachman
ICAN closed Facebook group
The Birth Hour Mamas Facebook group (join via Patreon)
Podcasts: The VBAC Link, Fear Free Childbirth, The Birth Hour
The GentleBirth app

Babylist

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